Thanks for bringing this up and clearly explaining the rationale behind this feature request. I agree with you and we do have room for improvement on the customization of NFS exports.
We actually have an opened issue for such improvement created by @dvgeek, interestingly also stemming from the need to specify the no_root_squash option:
The related forum discussion was:
If I remember correctly, we followed the default recommendation and settings with regards to this option, but I agree with you that we should more easily allow users to specifiy it. It’s already possible (see discussion above), but it’s currently not well documented and not intuitive enough so we should work on that.